Assalam O Alikum, We are follower of Ahle sunnat wal jamat (deoband). My younger brother loves with BARALVI girl and we wants to marry her. But my family members not agreed due to many wrong belives. like Hazrat Mohammad Salalaloho aliha wasalam presents every where he knows everything ... u know much better than me about their belives. What can i do in this situation ? Is it better that my brother marry with BARALVI girl ??? Kindly send me reply on my email address as soon as possible.
In the name of Allah, the Most Beneficent and the Most Merciful
Ordinary Barelvi girls do not bear the Concepts or Doctrines of Shirk nor are they adamant in their Doctrines. Therefore there is no harm in having nuptial union with such girls as per Shari’a. rather it is correct and permissible. However if any particular girl is known to be bearing Doctrines and Concepts of other than that of Ahl e Sunnath Wal Jama’ath and also she is adamant in her Concepts of Shirk, it is incumbent for any person who carries the Concepts of Sunnath Wal Jama’ath to refrain from marrying this particular girl.